@sumosanammain
sorry chief, you seem to have received some flak because of me, the thing is you read my post is isolation without the context hence didnt get the intended sarcasm/humour. in case you have read the tailing posts you'll know i dont have anything against limit orders and that , i place limit orders for my trades. this post was intended in a jocular dark humour line hence the way it was done.
I am a voracious reader and have read quite a lot of stuff and I have a little difference about the " look positive, think positive, say positive" agenda. while it is good to have a positive outlook in everything, i believe there should be a trace of fear / pessimism in your approach. this will help in damage control/ danger prevention when things start going bad. this is in my opinion an essential part of the human psyche of survival. There are hundreds of studies where companies who have been practicing this positive thinking stuff have had generally ended up ignoring or avoiding obvious mistakes which subsequently destroyed the companies, when a bit of caution and practical approach would have saved disaster.
while positivity works, caution is a saviour. i have spent my lifetime in sales and marketing and can relate to this behavioural psychology stuff though do not fully subscribe to it in total.
there was an article i had read. it was nice reading
https://getpocket.com/explore/item/stupefied
I enjoy healthy discussions, so no issues.
Nowhere in positive thinking does it say that you step in front of a fast moving car, feeling positive that it will stop for you.
NLP comes into play for traders who have developed a system, and are looking to execute it with minimum breakage of rules.
Very few traders reach this stage, where they can sit back, relax, and look at where they can improve their rule following.
NLP has helped me overcome these issues.
Feeling positive and NLP are not the same thing. That's Law of Attraction.
NLP helps in identifying disruptive behaviours as they happen in real time, realising it's happening, and conditioning yourself to realise that you are in the process of breaking your rules.
I have used it for light subjects, and it works for me.
Anyway, this applies to a very very miniscule number of traders, who ACTUALLY have a written plan in front of them
Around 10 years ago, I had the opportunity to give a talk on Trading Psychology to a group of traders, roughly 50 of them, all from this forum, that had come from all over the country. There, when I asked how many people had a written plan, just one person said he had his rules in writing.
I miss those old days of Traderji.