I guess you could say I've seen both ends of the extreme spectrum.
My uncle (1922--1994) was my personal human icon. Much of who and what I am today is because of my uncle. When I was a child, I became enthralled with his study of the stock markets, and then wanted to learn to read the data from the newspaper as it pertained to each stock. After all, if my uncle did it, and he was good at it, then in my little mind's eye, it just had to be right.
Time progressed, when finally in June 2004 I made up my mind I wanted to profitably invest in the stock market, in memory and dedication to my uncle. I made 100's of queries, then ended up talking to a broker, and he told me about forex. That sure sounded good, so on July 20,2004 my part-time job (I was working in the factory at the time.) was launched.
The worse thing that could have happened to me did on my demo account. Within the first week I made about 75%. I thought that was the way things were suppose to be. I did eventually bankrupt that demo account. LOL, I was relieved when I found out the broker would allow me to open another one.
Eventually, I opened a live account and bankrupted it too. I did that 2 more times.
Whew! I was going to the School of Hard Knocks. I did keep studying and learning all I could. Finally things start coming around. Slowly but surely, the process of my methodology was coming to fruition.
2007 was the biggest year for me with regards to the makeup of my methodology. I was having a casual conversation with someone that led into him sending me an e-mail. I happened across an idea, did some figuring, put some numbers together, and my proprietary set of S&R's was born. Later in that year, I invited someone to my chat room to let him explain to my people the ichimoku cloud. He used it as a standalone, and we were all impressed, but no one nibbled, except me. Needless to say, I don't use it as a standalone, but it is the cornerstone of my methodology.
Just to bring it up-to-date, I love trading. It is not just an income, but a hobby that I love. This is all I do as far as work is concerned. I have no ulterior financial interests. Even though it has been 17 years since my uncle has passed on, and I still miss him, his legend will live as long as I do.
I'll also add that for all newbies reading this that I hope you understand it does not matter how long it takes. It is very necessary to be patient. I could have avoided bankrupting the 3 accounts like I did if I was more patient. Make sure you have soundly developed a methodology to trade by, money management skills, and you have the proper mental discipline that all traders need. Don't forget even if it takes you 10 years, you will still have the rest of your life to reap the rewards. You will then look back at all those years of learning as time being a drop in the bucket.