Fastrade, the answer to many of your questions is that traders tend to be too impulsive, along with lacking the mental discipline that is needed with trading. You cannot be an emotional roller coaster and make it consistently in trading.
I've been trading for a little while. If I don't take a trade that moves significantly for me, I say, "So what!", and move on. There are plenty more opportunities.
I trade forex. If my trade has gone 100 pips in my favor, and then it gets 8 pips within my target, and then starts stumbling, I throw patience out the window. It is no longer a virtue. I book the profits! Just using that as an example, if you got 92 pips and there was only 8 to go, why would you want to sweat it out in front of your computer all in the name of being patient.
I leave pips on the table a lot. Again, so what! I still booked for a nice profit.
If you are still in the patient mode while it is approaching the stop loss, then book a lesser loss and take the trade out before the stop loss is hit.
If your losses are bigger than your profit, and you are not satisfied with that, then take the responsibility for that and rethink your methodology.
I am saying respectfully that it is a cop out to blame the market makers. Who cares who they are. I assure you, they are not worked up over who is going what direction. Forex is a 4$ trillion per day industry. $1 million is a pittance by comparison. I'm sure most of us in this forum do not have a million dollars in the markets, so the market makers (whoever they are) don't even know we exist.
WHY? WHY? WHY?
1 Why is it that the trade which you don't take moves significantly, living you pulling your hair?
2 Why is it that when you wait patiently for the target, it never gets hit but you end up either exiting at the buying price or a very little profit?
3 Why is it that when you consider to take the profit without waiting for the target, you will end up seeing the target getting hit, leaving significant profit on table?
4 Why is it that when you wait patiently the stoploss will always get hit?
5 Why is it that the losses are always big but not the profit?
6 Who are the market makers, and how can they outsmart 95% of the traders all the time? as there are only 5% winners in Intraday trading?
If you have the answers for the above questions please put some light for the benefit of other traders.