Hi,
Just wanted to give you my bit on the lines above.
Be a little easy on yourself at-least be fair. Have you really praised yourself to the same degree when you made a perfect 100% day? Most of us don't do that.
Negative motivation only takes you so far, it's a very short term booster, it just helps suppress your guilt of the wrong doing... and as we all know here the stock market is not a short term task... it's takes a lot of effort and dedication to remain focused and do your work in the markets.
Instead stick to your long term goals and when something wrong happens (which is bound to happen as we're all humans) accept your mistake calmly and objectify what you did wrong rather than 'punish yourself' or rather don't make use of inflated statements against yourself (you've already been punished by the market at the very least). Motivate yourself with your correct behavior and by adopting and changing the flaws that you've objectified.
Remember that work always comes and goes but you and your family always remain... so love your family and yourself... and work will always follow.
Take care.
Just wanted to give you my bit on the lines above.
Be a little easy on yourself at-least be fair. Have you really praised yourself to the same degree when you made a perfect 100% day? Most of us don't do that.
Negative motivation only takes you so far, it's a very short term booster, it just helps suppress your guilt of the wrong doing... and as we all know here the stock market is not a short term task... it's takes a lot of effort and dedication to remain focused and do your work in the markets.
Instead stick to your long term goals and when something wrong happens (which is bound to happen as we're all humans) accept your mistake calmly and objectify what you did wrong rather than 'punish yourself' or rather don't make use of inflated statements against yourself (you've already been punished by the market at the very least). Motivate yourself with your correct behavior and by adopting and changing the flaws that you've objectified.
Remember that work always comes and goes but you and your family always remain... so love your family and yourself... and work will always follow.
Take care.
I value it and it is nice to see these kind of posts, especially, from one who can think above my own thoughts. Here i see value addition.
Essentially u are saying "Be positive". I shud go in for positive reinforcements rather than indulging otherwise.
thanx and i will heed to ur advise :thumb: