Excellent discussion on my old thread. TraderRavi's suggestion looks good. Aim for a green month consistently instead of 10% or 20% gains for a month.
My actual results are erratic and drawdowns are hefty. Unable to control emotions like fear and greed. Trading is intellectually simple and emotionally hard to play.
Lessons I learnt.
1. If my trade size is small say 1 lot trade, I feel more comfortable. When my trade size is large say 3 lots, I am in doldrums.
2. I feel positive and energetic when I make profits. I feel depressed and down emotionally when my trades go wrong. Emotional failure.
3. I know three things should be in place before I make any trade. Trade price, Stop loss, Target. I failed miserably on this front.
4. What I conceived so far is that : trade size should be as per our emotional equilibrium.
5. Never bothered to have a trading plan which is the reason for the catastrophic failure.