ok I will not get into my life story on a public forum .. but i will tell you i did right and what i did wrong
Wrongs:
1. I jumped into trading without understanding the difficulty level (Nobody should ever do that)
2. I had no idea what trading is all about when i started
3. Had no idea what to study. Did not try to figure out from online forums like you r doing.. Hence spent a lot of time reading outdated and not so useful stuffs
4. Chasing illusive double digit returns
5. Taking too many counter trend trades
6. May be too stubborn to accept that I need help and cant figure out myself
7. Did not have a water tight trading plan.. Too flexible.
Right:
1. Had solid risk mgmt in place from day 1. Hence not incurred much of draw down
2. I was not gambling. I approached it always mathematically and scientifically
3. Some of my trades were making money where I was aiming for moderate returns.. Kept me alive.
4. At some point i thought it is not possible but then i gathered myself together and realized that focus on the working trades and grow
5. I realized what kind of trades give me comfort and sticking to that kind only
6. I worked on develop trading system, tested them, and try to trade as per my trading framework.. I still fall prey to psychological challenges
7. Live to trade another day... Never risking too much in one trade or one day .. various metrics to determine capital to be deployed to various strategies and evaluate using performance metrics and risk metrics.
In short, treat it like a business and plan ur business first!!