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Old 23rd October 2008, 11:06 PM
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this is teh time now to post my grievances...

i find ,, truly speaking many members get ,, tempered when i speak something,,,even in casual terms
it shall not be good if i start posting name of few members
is it just because i am female,,, it forces me too think,,,, or am i too weak,,, that everytime i ahve to prove myself taht i ahve no intentions of hurting anyone...its just my views...for everyones sake i put up...not jsut thinking for myself,,,
many atimes,,, not many say hundred times i ahve been,,,taken as token of joke by many members.... some have given.. bad comments too for my writing style..but i ahev never taken it seriuosly.... rather... assured to improve... but gods grace its nt improvng at all...
and sometimes..i too ahve leg pulled few mem bers... but never in seriuos note.... my heart speaks..
if i would ahve taken the neg side then,,, i would ahve quitted this forum long back

i hope many members knwo why have posted my feelings in seperate thread..
just to convey to few members...
i am not so bad as u think...but still i think i am too bad,,,, in expressing myself in words...

asish da truly said... slowly we will find members going / quitting this forum.. no matter whatso ever reason is

i dont seek for any reply back for thsi particular message

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i requset t to delete thsi thraed after few days....by super moderator itself...
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Old 23rd October 2008, 11:15 PM
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renuji,
please understand that most senior members in traderji including you,ashish'da,sat'da,saint,czar,alex,sunil are all cherished...
looks like this is all due to hughe communication gap.
btw how was today morning meeting with bush?

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this is teh time now to post my grievances...

i find ,, truly speaking many members get ,, tempered when i speak something,,,even in casual terms
it shall not be good if i start posting name of few members
is it just because i am female,,, it forces me too think,,,, or am i too weak,,, that everytime i ahve to prove myself taht i ahve no intentions of hurting anyone...its just my views...for everyones sake i put up...not jsut thinking for myself,,,
many atimes,,, not many say hundred times i ahve been,,,taken as token of joke by many members.... some have given.. bad comments too for my writing style..but i ahev never taken it seriuosly.... rather... assured to improve... but gods grace its nt improvng at all...
and sometimes..i too ahve leg pulled few mem bers... but never in seriuos note.... my heart speaks..
if i would ahve taken the neg side then,,, i would ahve quitted this forum long back

i hope many members knwo why have posted my feelings in seperate thread..
just to convey to few members...
i am not so bad as u think...but still i think i am too bad,,,, in expressing myself in words...

asish da truly said... slowly we will find members going / quitting this forum.. no matter whatso ever reason is

i dont seek for any reply back for thsi particular message

renu
i requset t to delete thsi thraed after few days....by super moderator itself...
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Old 23rd October 2008, 11:24 PM
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dear renu,
bouquets and brickbats in a public forum are bound to be there and should be taken in the right spirit. Dont feel disheartened, and carry on. Never consider yourself weak or bad.

As regards your writing, if you write a little slowly with determination, I am sure , within a few days you can improve.

Relax and Enjoy life as it comes.

wish you all the best.
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Old 24th October 2008, 08:03 PM
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Hey Renu ,
wat happened?? i got shocked after reading this... Renu which i know is a very very strong person. it is very unlike Renu.. i dont know wat made you upset, but plz dont take it to heart.. you are one of the most valuable and cherished members of this forum... And regarding your writing ,plz dont change it.. it is ur hallmark.. we wont be able recognize you without that..and cheer up..
waiting eagerly for your posts.
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hi renu!

just stop worrying ..don't get hurt..if you feel bad about some one comments just shoot a fitting reply rather than getting diappointed...you can even click report post on top right corner in red colour.

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renu,

why don't u communicate in hindi ...........?
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The burden of 6200 is now reduced substantially,hope by now Renu is Light hearted.
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Old 25th October 2008, 08:25 AM
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Originally Posted by renu daga View Post
this is teh time now to post my grievances...

i find ,, truly speaking many members get ,, tempered when i speak something,,,even in casual terms
it shall not be good if i start posting name of few members
is it just because i am female,,, it forces me too think,,,, or am i too weak,,, that everytime i ahve to prove myself taht i ahve no intentions of hurting anyone...its just my views...for everyones sake i put up...not jsut thinking for myself,,,
many atimes,,, not many say hundred times i ahve been,,,taken as token of joke by many members.... some have given.. bad comments too for my writing style..but i ahev never taken it seriuosly.... rather... assured to improve... but gods grace its nt improvng at all...
and sometimes..i too ahve leg pulled few mem bers... but never in seriuos note.... my heart speaks..
if i would ahve taken the neg side then,,, i would ahve quitted this forum long back

i hope many members knwo why have posted my feelings in seperate thread..
just to convey to few members...
i am not so bad as u think...but still i think i am too bad,,,, in expressing myself in words...

asish da truly said... slowly we will find members going / quitting this forum.. no matter whatso ever reason is

i dont seek for any reply back for thsi particular message

renu
i requset t to delete thsi thraed after few days....by super moderator itself...
Renuji, Believe me there is no "gender bias" on the forum!!! My views as follows and Renuji, I may be totally wrong....
I perceive your problem as more of looking at things as a preconceived notion!!! At times people might have reacted to your posts harshly but believe me at times 'we' the one who is responded to takes the responce negatively though nothing of that sort was intended by the person who posted!!! This has happened with me a number of times hence I write this!!!

I strongly feel that you are seeing ghosts where there are none!!!
And the most important part is : The moment you start to "react" rather than "respond" to someones negative or harsh comment, you are in fact giving your "control" in his/her hand!!! They control you!!! All they have to do is post an adverse comment and make you upset!!!

Get over these things and have the attitude of "give a damn!!!!!!!!!"... try it for a week and see the difference!! Do not allow the persons (if there are any) in there scheme to make you leave the Forum!!!
All the Best!!!!!!!!!!
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-R K Karnani
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Old 25th October 2008, 09:34 AM
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Dear Renuji,

Any comment from a Friend looks sweet, whereas even a light banter from others looks harsh & insulting. Pls don't push us from Friends Circle to Others group.

Gender bias here, never never. We respect your TA & views as Trader, not because you are a female.

We are used to, Renuji the bold & strong character and would never like to see a weaker one.

Cheers
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Old 25th October 2008, 11:12 AM
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well mkt in critical situtaion i ddnt wnat t o put small petty matters on forum,,,
u al took wrong...

my main grievance was making my small requset made sta da leave teh forum,,,,,he took such a big decision... which felt em very v ery bad,,,, though i did not say nay neg thing still..
and now when he has agian joined ,,, i am very happy,,, and dont wnat thsi thraed to go long further making me embrassed unnecessarily

burden of 6200,,,
now burden,,, of sat das fig.1350,,and elliot waves,,, is bronging horror waves inside me,,,i dont knwo how one will survive...in this golbal economy
when PM himself has said that how far india will be left untouched!!

yeh diwali sab ko yaad rahegee
renu
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