A Strong Trading Mind

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amitrandive

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"Success is not buying a sports car, taking your company public for $500 million or retiring early, but rather helping others to pave their own paths so they can impact the world in their own positive ways.Wealth is what we give to others to pass on through their own actions, lives and journeys."

Jim Rohn
 

amitrandive

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Stop trying to change the people you love and change yourself! Stop trying to change people who take your money but will not take your advice. You will only drain your own mental, spiritual, emotional and financial reserves. The truth is...people change when they are sick and tired of being sick and tired or hit rock bottom.

If you are dealing with addiction or irresponsible behavior from grown adults ~ protect your wallet and your mind. It does not mean you do not love them. Your attempts to help may only delay what is inevitable. Allow them to take the journey they have chosen for themselves. Choose to let go of the guilt and be at peace. You may require counseling or emotional support to stop being an enabler. If necessary, give yourself some distance so that you can stop being used or manipulated because they know that you care and you love them. You have the right to enjoy a guilt-free, happy and productive life. Commit yourself to changing the only person you really can - YOU!! You have GREATNESS within you!!

Les Brown
 
THE 5 DETERMINATIVE MENTAL FACTORS

6. Resolution / aspiration - directing effort to fulfil desired intention, basis for diligence and enthusiasm.
7. Interest / appreciation - holding on to a particular thing, not allowing distraction
8. Mindfulness / Recollection - repeatedly bringing objects back to mind, not forgetting
9. Concentration / Samadhi - one-pointed focus on an object, basis for increasing intelligence
10. Intelligence / Wisdom - "common-sense intelligence", fine discrimination, examines characteristics of objects, stops doubt, maintains root of all wholesome qualities.

 

amitrandive

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Refuse to complain. Complaining is just a way of not taking responsibility, justifying doing nothing, and programming yourself to fail. Complaining creates the illusion that you have done something. Instead, pour your energy into improving your situation. When you find ways to be productive and maintain a sense of optimism, you demonstrate that you are in control of your own life.

Complainers focus on what has happened, and give up their power. Winners focus on making things happen, and using their power to find solutions to their challenges. You were born to create something magnificent with your life!! Solution-based thinking gives you that power. You Deserve!!

Les Brown
 

amitrandive

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Focus properly on task at hand.

https://in.finance.yahoo.com/news/psychological-phenomenon-explains-why-spend-164100472.html

Your addiction to action could be sabotaging your productivity.

It's incredibly frustrating to leave work at the end of the day feeling like you accomplished basically nothing on your to-do list.

How is it possible that you spent eight (or more) hours at your desk, didn't even goof off on Facebook, and still made no progress on the day's goals?

Perhaps the problem is less a lack of conscientiousness and more that you're losing sight of your top priorities. Instead of organizing your workday around those priorities, you continually jump on any small tasks that will make you feel productive but don't matter so much in the long run, like responding to non-urgent emails.

It's a problem labeled "action addiction."


Action addiction is a major consequence of an untrained mind, and its prevalence is increasing steadily among modern workers.

"When the mind's under pressure — when it never gets a break from being bombarded with information and distractions — it can be difficult to maintain focus, let alone prioritize tasks," the authors write in "One Second Ahead."

A leader at a Japanese technology and consumer goods company, who said: "Quite often, I find that I'm so overwhelmed with information and distractions that I just jump on whatever feels most pressing in the moment. It's like an impulse that's hard to control."

The authors write that accomplishing a new task — whether that's firing off a quick email or responding to a colleague's request for help — triggers the release of the neurotransmitter dopamine, which helps regulate the brain's reward and pleasure centers.

The untrained mind,is on some level addicted to instant gratification and that dopamine release, and seeks them out at the expense of making headway on truly important tasks. As a result, performance can suffer because you fall behind on your main responsibilities.

"You keep on spinning your wheels instead of doing the right things," .

Here's how you can tell if you're addicted to action: When you first arrive at your desk, try sitting there and doing absolutely nothing for three minutes. (You can stare out the window or into your blank computer screen.) If that's hard to do, the authors write, you're probably experiencing some degree of action addiction.

There's no need to travel — you can harness the power of mindfulness from your desk chair.

So how do you overcome the urge to accomplish something relatively unimportant just because it feels important in the moment?

The authors suggest a simple "breath break." Instead of jumping immediately into action, stop and take a breath.

"Endure the discomfort of conflicting priorities," the authors write, referring to the conflict between accomplishing something that feels pressing and putting it on hold so you can work on something more important.

While you're taking a breath, remember what your priorities are and then make a decision about what to do next based on those goals.

The authors acknowledge that their solution may seem too easy: "Although it may sound simple, taking a breath to recall your priorities can be difficult. When faced with multiple tasks, doing nothing but breathing may trigger restlessness or even anxiety."

Yet if you repeat this breath break every time you've got the urge to launch into a seemingly urgent task, the authors say you can overcome action addiction and develop a well-trained mind.

"You can gain one second of mental freedom to get ahead of your mental impulses," they write.

Ultimately, that one second can save you hours of extra work and the accompanying frustration.
 

amitrandive

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Let it go. There are some things, some people, some attitudes, and some feelings that you have experienced that you just need to let go ~ because they are preventing you from living your greatest life! You are in charge. Exercise your power by consciously looking and asking the question..."How is this serving me by holding on to this attitude, anger, lack of forgiveness, grudge, or negative emotion?" Stop allowing these things to rob you of your peace of mind, happiness and well-being.

Let it go so that you can grow and prosper. Make the decision to release anything that is unbecoming of you, and that does not represent your highest and best thinking. This is easier said than done. It requires work, becoming deliberate and consciously aware of your feelings. No person or thing is worth sacrificing being joyfully enthusiastic about your life and health. Look for many ways to increase laughter, joy and love in your daily experience. You Deserve!

Les Brown