A Strong Trading Mind

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nifty trade

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The following is true about trading ,as well as of Life...

Every mind has a bias, because everyone’s beliefs and worldview are shaped by their own unique experiences within a particular environment.

So no single person has a perfect view of reality. Instead, we each have our own window into reality. And everyone’s view is going to be a little bit different.

Therefore, every person you meet knows something that you don’t know. And you know something that they don’t know. That’s a powerful insight to keep in mind.

When you accept your bias, it actually puts you in a better position to learn new things and expand your perspective.

You recognize that everyone has something to teach you, so you should be willing to listen to all perspectives, and try to find a grain of truth.

This doesn’t necessarily mean that all truth is subjective, or just a matter of opinion. It’s the acceptance that your knowledge is limited – you know some things, and you’re ignorant about others.

Intelligent people recognize that they are always coming from a particular perspective or bias, and that they never have all the answers to everything.

In a healthy mind, every belief is flexible and subject to change, as long as you are open to new information that may contradict those old beliefs.


Balancing your bias in the real world

Accept your bias. – First, you have to at least recognize that you have your own biases, just like everyone else. This isn’t necessarily a bad thing, it just means your worldview is dependent on your particular experiences and environment.

Explain yourself. – One way to get at the root of your biases is to practice explaining your beliefs and why you believe them. This is why I recommend the healthy challenge of explaining your own beliefs.

Seek diverse sources of information. – We often reinforce our biases by only consuming news and information that confirms those biases. You can counteract this by exposing yourself to new sources of information, especially ones that represent views you often disagree with.

Engage in healthy debates. – One of the best ways to sharpen your beliefs is to engage in conversations with intelligent people of different ideologies who are also willing to debate you in a healthy and polite way. That can be hard to find, but when you do it’s invaluable.

Admit it when you’re wrong. – The hardest thing for many people is to simply admit it when we are wrong. It shouldn’t be, because of course we are all going to be wrong sometimes. But very few of us can accept this, because we are often too worried about protecting our egos.

Be willing to say, “I don’t know.” – You don’t need to have an opinion about every single subject. If you’re not familiar with something, or your completely ignorant about it, just be willing to say, “I don’t know.” There’s a great power in the wisdom of ignorance.


Remember, you’re never going to completely get rid of your bias – it’s part of being human. But these are helpful tips and advice to help balance your bias and keep it in check.

The most important thing is that you keep your mind open to new perspectives, and you’re always willing to adjust your beliefs in the face of new information.


source - internet.www.theemotionmachine.com/accepting-your-bias
Perhaps the most, the most, the most powerful read ever in my life.

It's so powerful and useful and amazing that it brings tears in my eyes as I read it, because it was so overwhelming
 

amitrandive

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With Greatness comes Humility
http://www.traderji.com/general-tra...money-markets-method-madness.html#post1070385

* Charlie Munger, Vice-President of Berkshire Hathway, offers advise on marriage. Munger tells the crowd to "look for someone with low expectations." Everyone laughs, but everyone also maybe knows it's true. Successful investing, like successful relationships, is about being able to stomach the bad times in exchange for good times in the future. All of a business's flaws, like all of a person's flaws, are on full and vivid display when you're committed to them.

* At one point, a young shareholder asks Buffett and Munger what sorts of "mental models" they might employ if they were trying to build Berkshire again. How did they think about building Berkshire before they built it, in short. Of course, the answer is that you don't set out to build a Berkshire Hathaway; it just happens. Through hard work and incredible luck you end up at Berkshire Hathaway: Attempting to build this from the start would lead to certain failure.
 

Dax Devil

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SLOW DANCE
Source:Internet

Have you ever watched kids on a merry-go-round?
Or listened to the rain slapping on the ground?

Ever followed a butterfly's erratic flight?

Or gazed at the sun into the fading night?

You better slow down.
Don't dance so fast.
Time is short.
The music won't last.

Do you run through each day on the fly?
When you ask, “How are you?”
Do you hear the reply?

When the day is done, do you lie in your bed,
with the next hundred chores running through your head?

You'd better slow down
Don't dance so fast.

Time is short
The music won't last.

Ever told your child,
We'll do it tomorrow?
And in your haste,
Not see his sorrow?

Ever lost touch, let a good friendship die
Cause you never had time
To call and say,'Hi'
You'd better slow down.
Don't dance so fast.

Time is short.
The music won't last..
When you run so fast to get somewhere,
You miss half the fun of getting there.
When you worry and hurry through your day,
It is like an unopened gift....

Thrown away.
Life is not a race.
Do take it slower
Hear the music
Before the song is over.
Beautiful. Just beautiful.

Amit, whenever I log in on traderji, I always look forward to reading your latest posts. Thanks for sharing all these wonderful anecdotes and stories and poems.
 

Catch22

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As a meditation teacher, I've heard every excuse under the sun as to why people can’t meditate. “I don’t have time!” or, “I just can’t sit still,” to name a few.

It's reasons like these that inspired me to teach mini-meditations that only take one minute. In order to meditate regularly, you don’t always have to commit to a practice that feels like it's taking over your life. If you focus on your breath for just 60 seconds, you have successfully implemented meditation into your day.

Creating "mindful minutes" can compliment a daily meditation practice that you might already have, or as a standalone practice. I have many students who prefer to accumulate these mindful minutes throughout their day, instead of sitting for extended periods of time. It's amazing how quickly they can start to add up!

Our attention is often scattered amidst myriad responsibilities like work, family and friends. But these mindful moments can offer reprieve, helping to combat stress and bring a greater sense of calm into our day, one minute at a time.

I suggest practicing these mini-meditations throughout the day when you are:

First waking up in the morning
Waiting at a traffic light
Standing in line at the grocery store
In the carpool line waiting to pick up your kids
Before you sit down to eat a meal
In the shower
At work before or after a stressful meeting
Before you get into bed
Or anytime you feel that you need to re-group or have a moment of downtime
· While you begin to solidify these new habits of bringing more mindfulness into your day, you sometimes may need a little reminder. Post a sticky note next to your computer that says “breathe” and whenever you look at it, use one of the following five techniques. Once you get used to these exercises, they eventually become a more natural part of your everyday routine.

· Here are five mini-meditations you can do in one minute:

· 1. Match your inhales and exhales.

· Take a comfortable breath in and count how long it takes you to do so. Most people reach a count of 3, 4 or 5. Keep in mind that the number isn’t important, so long as it is comfortable for you. Whatever number you reached on your inhale, match that number on your exhale. Repeat for one minute, setting a timer so you can focus on the exercise.

· 2. Count your breaths.

· As you inhale, silently think 1, exhale 2, inhale 3, exhale 4 … all the way to 10. Repeat three times.

· 3. Do a short body scan.

· Rest your attention on different parts of your body, starting with the top of your head and moving toward your toes. As you notice each one, focus your attention there and consciously relax that part of you. In a minute you should be able to do your scalp, eyes, cheeks, mouth, jaw, neck, shoulders, chest, arms, belly and legs.

· 4. Try the "Sweet 16" breath.

· Inhale for a silent count of 4, hold for 4, exhale for 4, hold the exhale for 4. Repeat three times.

· 5. Practice belly breathing.

· Take a nice long inhale and pretend you are blowing up a balloon in your stomach as you do so. Really feel your belly expanding as you breathe. You can even place one hand on your belly so as to feel the sensation of your belly expanding. Hold for a moment and slowly exhale all the air out of your balloon. Repeat for one minute, setting a timer if you need to.

· As you can see, any minute can be made mindful one. As you exhale, think about releasing what is no longer serving you. Take the opportunity to exhale out any stress and anxiety you may feel. On the inhales, decide if you are bringing that same negativity back into your body, or if you are making a choice to invite peace, calm and joy into your day instead.

· With each new breath comes another opportunity to choose, so I encourage you to make the most of it.

SOURCE – INTERNET http://thelawofattractionnetworks.ning.com/profiles/blogs/5-mini-meditations-you-can-do-in-1-minute
 

Dax Devil

Well-Known Member
Dax Devil
Thanks for your kind words and encouragement!!!
:clapping::clapping::clapping:
Hi Amit. That is very nice of you to say, thanks.

Here are some words for you. They are not the usual oratory fare that we are so accustomed to seeing in popular quotes, but are plain honest words that came straight out of the heart of a young writer. Perhaps that is the reason I saved them. Hope you would like them:

“I've been making a list of the things they don't teach you at school.
They don't teach you how to love somebody.
They don't teach you how to be famous.
They don't teach you how to be rich or how to be poor.
They don't teach you how to walk away from someone you don't love any longer.
They don't teach you how to know what's going on in someone else's mind.
They don't teach you what to say to someone who's dying.

They don't teach you anything worth knowing.”

― Neil Gaiman
 

Catch22

Well-Known Member
Was thrilled to find this audio book .Had been in my list of books to read ,thanks to a good friend .
It was absorbing' to listen .many life lessons to learn and absorb .

The book "Tuesdays with Morrie is a memoir by American writer Mitch Albom topped the New York Times Non-Fiction Bestsellers of 2000. An unabridged audiobook was also published, narrated by Albom himself. The appendix of the audiobook contains several minutes of excerpts from the audio recordings Albom made in his conversations with Morrie Schwartz in preparation for writing the book.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gGCYD_7taKA -movie Tuesdays with Morrie

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sbGFCniYwdI --Audiobook: Tuesdays with Morrie by Mitch Albom