Well, mine is a long story. Not sure if any one would want to read or listen. Honestly, not even sure if any body would even care. But i think it just makes me feel better to write some thing here.
I did have an arranged marriage back in 2004. Soon after we started living together, i realized that my wife could never trust me (for whatever reason). Simple and small things would turn up to be huge issues. For example, I would be coming back late from work and for no reason she would suspect me of being with a prostitute or having an affair with another women. Then I would have to convince her that I had work to do in my office etc. I would be crossing the road and she would accuse me of looking at some other woman inappropriately when in fact, I was not looking at another woman or any thing, i was merely crossing the road and making sure i don't get hit by a truck or a car. Later she started accusing me that I was not giving her any cash for her household expenses when in fact, i did give her my bank atm card etc. She still insisted that she doesn't want to use the bank atm card. I told her that she could withdraw money or use it any time she wants. But no, she wanted cash so I had to give her cash every month..
One fine day, she beat me pretty badly. She tried to beat me up again and I had to call the cops. To make a long story short, the issue is that we have had good times and bad times. Whenever she is nice, she could be the greatest woman to me. But when she gets angry, she becomes very violent to me.
I have petitioned for a divorce. Am I doing the right thing? Actually, I already filed for divorce and also withdrew it once. We both decided to reconcile but later I realized that she just wanted her green card through me and had no real interest in me.
My parents and our family doctors think that she is paranoid schizophrenic. To make matters worse, she baptized to be a born again christian and always was imposing her religious views upon me.
Is divorce the right thing?
Why am I so depressed even after she has done all this cruel things to me?
I did have an arranged marriage back in 2004. Soon after we started living together, i realized that my wife could never trust me (for whatever reason). Simple and small things would turn up to be huge issues. For example, I would be coming back late from work and for no reason she would suspect me of being with a prostitute or having an affair with another women. Then I would have to convince her that I had work to do in my office etc. I would be crossing the road and she would accuse me of looking at some other woman inappropriately when in fact, I was not looking at another woman or any thing, i was merely crossing the road and making sure i don't get hit by a truck or a car. Later she started accusing me that I was not giving her any cash for her household expenses when in fact, i did give her my bank atm card etc. She still insisted that she doesn't want to use the bank atm card. I told her that she could withdraw money or use it any time she wants. But no, she wanted cash so I had to give her cash every month..
One fine day, she beat me pretty badly. She tried to beat me up again and I had to call the cops. To make a long story short, the issue is that we have had good times and bad times. Whenever she is nice, she could be the greatest woman to me. But when she gets angry, she becomes very violent to me.
I have petitioned for a divorce. Am I doing the right thing? Actually, I already filed for divorce and also withdrew it once. We both decided to reconcile but later I realized that she just wanted her green card through me and had no real interest in me.
My parents and our family doctors think that she is paranoid schizophrenic. To make matters worse, she baptized to be a born again christian and always was imposing her religious views upon me.
Is divorce the right thing?
Why am I so depressed even after she has done all this cruel things to me?