Do you trade in very huge quantities? Like 20,000 Nifty or 50,000 to 200000 qty in stocks? If no, then these big traders are not interested in your 500 or 1000 Nifty or 5 or 10000 qty equity stops.
Yes, there is something called level 3 that gives levels upto 10 levels deep, but it doesnt show stop orders. Only limit orders.
Dont take my post otherwise
As for manual stops, well, I doubt t hat even if 1 out of 10 times you make the mistake of not getting stopped out because of emotional reasons, it will ensure that you are always struggling to make money, if not loosing a lot of it.
The market is a very very cruel place, it will take your money if you dont protect it.